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I have came so far
Mon, 2010-12-06 01:33
Can you believe that I once dread being asked the question of "Where do you see yourself in 5 years"?
Back then I did not see too far into my future; I was fresh out of college and didn't know what I wanted in life nor what to expect from it. All that changed after I married my wife. Nothing said success like a good woman standing beside her man. No I am not sexist; but I do believe that a man's duty has to be in the forefront of providing for his family. Now with a ever growing family, I am even more happy and eager to do better.
Nowadays, my mind is so clear that I am able to think and see beyond 10, 15, even 25 years ahead. I feel that as long as I have my family behind me, I can do anything and everything. lol lord knows that there is no room for mistakes. There is a saying in Chinese.
"Staving your wife to death and stinking up your home"
This usually happens when a man does not provide for his family. I do not wish this to happen to anyone, not even my worst enemies. In my opinion, a man is not a man if he can not provide more than basic needs for his family.